[BugFix] update staros to 3.5.4

* bump staros version to v3.5.4 with perf fix on colocate-heavy cluster
  balance

Signed-off-by: Kevin Cai <kevin.cai@celerdata.com>

Author: kevincai

fe/pom.xml

@@ -73,7 +73,7 @@ under the License.
         <paimon.version>1.2.0</paimon.version>
         <delta-kernel.version>4.0.0rc1</delta-kernel.version>
         <iceberg.version>1.9.0</iceberg.version>
-        <staros.version>3.5.3</staros.version>
+        <staros.version>3.5.4</staros.version>
         <!-- hadoop-azure requires no more than jetty10+ -->
         <!-- https://stackoverflow.com/questions/66713254/spark-wasb-and-jetty-11 -->
         <jetty.version>9.4.58.v20250814</jetty.version>