Update spark-sql to 4.1.0 (#4114)

## About this PR
📦 Updates [org.apache.spark:spark-sql](https://spark.apache.org/) from
`4.0.1` to `4.1.0`

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<details>
<summary>🔍 Files still referring to the old version number</summary>

The following files still refer to the old version number (4.0.1).
You might want to review and update them manually.
```
docs/release-notes.md
```
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<summary>⚙ Adjust future updates</summary>

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this dependency:
```
updates.ignore = [ { groupId = "org.apache.spark", artifactId = "spark-sql" } ]
```
Or, add this to slow down future updates of this dependency:
```
dependencyOverrides = [{
  pullRequests = { frequency = "30 days" },
  dependency = { groupId = "org.apache.spark", artifactId = "spark-sql" }
}]
```
</details>

<sup>
labels: test-library-update
</sup>

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      "crossDependency" : [
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          "groupId" : "org.apache.spark",
          "artifactId" : {
            "name" : "spark-sql",
            "maybeCrossName" : "spark-sql_2.13"
          },
          "version" : "4.0.1",
          "sbtVersion" : null,
          "scalaVersion" : null,
          "configurations" : "test"
        }
      ],
      "newerVersions" : [
        "4.1.0"
      ],
      "newerGroupId" : null,
      "newerArtifactId" : null
    }
  },
  "Labels" : [
    "test-library-update"
  ]
} -->

Author: xerial-bot

build.sbt

@@ -985,7 +985,7 @@ def sqlRefLib = { scalaVersion: String =>
   if (scalaVersion.startsWith("2.13")) {
     Seq(
       // Include Spark just as a reference implementation
-      "org.apache.spark" %% "spark-sql" % "4.0.1" % Test,
+      "org.apache.spark" %% "spark-sql" % "4.1.0" % Test,
       // Include Trino as a reference implementation
       "io.trino" % "trino-main" % "479" % Test
     )