deps: update to pyodbc 5.3.0

[amotl]

Problem

An old version of pyodbc blocks fluent wheel-based installation on Python 3.13 (without needing a compiler toolchain).

Details

#37 16.97   × Failed to build `pyodbc==5.1.0`
#37 16.97   ├─▶ The build backend returned an error
#37 16.97   ╰─▶ Call to `setuptools.build_meta.build_wheel` failed (exit status: 1)

References

• OCI: Use Python 3.13 for image cratedb-toolkit-ingest crate/cratedb-toolkit#620 (CI failure)

[amotl]

Hi @turtleDev. The previous CI run failed because of other reasons. Can you permit another run?