[mongodb] Upgrade dependencies

[holgerfriedrich]

• Upgrade mongodb-client from 4.11.1 to 5.4.
• Upgrade test dependencies and helper libraries.

Not that this upgrade lifts the minmum database version to 4.0.
An update alert will be added if this PR is going to be accepted.

[lsiepel]

We would probably need some links to migration documentation for users to migrate to 4.0+
Or upgradetool? i'm not that familiair with mongodb

[holgerfriedrich]

@lsiepel I don't think this is necessary. MongoDB 3 seems to be EOL since 2021; the community edition also released the last patch in 2021.
I would have even upgraded to 4.2 (minimum req. of the current db driver), but as the tests relay on a library which does not provide the matching interface, I just did this intermediate step. We could also drop this, as it is only used as a fallback if Docker is not available.

I don't use this DB, there seems to be no commits besides maintenance since 2021.... So not sure who could answer questions or test the DB.

This PR was created because I think we should keep the shared infrastructure up to date, i.e. persistence, transformations, and all bindings installed per default by the setup-wizard.

[lsiepel]

Thanks, LGTM

Distro upgrade notice about minimum db version is needed.

[holgerfriedrich]

@lsiepel done, openhab/openhab-distro#1911, thanks