Fix reminder text host vs surf reference

[nabramow]

Closes #8710

Host and surf were using the same reminder text. This fixes it to have different text for host vs surf reference reminder.

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This PR does not need to be included in release notes.

Reason: This fixes incorrect reminder wording on the dashboard so host and surf reference reminders now show the right text. While it is user-facing, it is a minor copy bug rather than a significant feature, UX improvement, or important bug fix affecting core functionality.

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Model: couchers.openai.gpt-5.4
Decision: exclude
Reasoning: This fixes incorrect reminder wording on the dashboard so host and surf reference reminders now show the right text. While it is user-facing, it is a minor copy bug rather than a significant feature, UX improvement, or important bug fix affecting core functionality.